I think my father is about the smartest guy in the world. I would say that most daughters probably think that of their fathers but actually these days I only know a couple of girls that would say that about their father. Anyway, among other things I base this on the fact that he has figured out how to cure women from shopping. Think about how many men you know that are always complaining about how much the women in their life shop. I hear it ALL the time, that could have something to do with owning a trading post. They make jokes about how much they spend, how much time they waste, the junk they get, and so on and so on and so on. Well my Dad has solved this problem. He never complains about the shopping habits of any women in his life (and there are many! ) he doesn’t have to because he has cured them. And here is how hid did it…
#1 Go shopping with them!
If your wife or girlfriend says she wants to go the mall to pick up a few things DO NOT say “OK Honey, I am exhausted from work so I am going to relax and watch the game, you have a good time.” NEVER DO THAT! No! Never! If you want to gain control, you must push yourself, no mater how tired you are and go shopping with her. You must. Do what ever you have to do to get to go along with her. Depending on your relationship you can use different excuses. It is always best to make them think that you are going just for their sake that you are sacrificing for them. Say you would miss her too much if she went without you. Say that you would go anywhere just to be with her. Say its a dangerous part of town and even though you know she can handle anything herself you would worry if she went alone. But if you have been married a while and she is used to you not going with her you may have to say things like, you have something you wanted to check on or that you have been thinking lately that you have not spent enough time with her.
Important Tip– Never lie! A lie would be felt even if she doesn’t consciously realize its a lie she will feel you are being insincere. Its OK to exaggerate or mix fact and fiction but never say something that you totally do not feel. If you have trouble feeling any of the excuses I mentioned think about it like this, you really would follow her anywhere to keep her from spending your whole paycheck, you really would worry (no matter what part of town) if she went by herself. There’s no telling what she would redecorate the house with! 레플리카쇼핑몰
So now that you are safely in the car with them, proceed to step two.
#2 Ask them where they would like to go, then mention some places that you would like to go if there is time.
It is very important to make sure that one of the places you have to go is to get or do, something that is important for more people than just yourself! Such as to get something to fix the home, supplies for a group outing, something for one of the kids, a gift for your parents, anything just let her know that you think about more people than yourself and your shopping trips aren’t all for self pleasure. Then after you establish that you need to go somewhere for someone else, quickly follow that swing with the knock out blow. ACT like her shopping is more important to you than your own and go to her places first! No mater how much she protests, if she says that yours will be faster or even if she says that yours is more important; still, don’t do it. Insist on doing her shopping first. This accomplishes two things, she feels important to you and it puts responsibility on her to not take too long. You are now starting to get into her mind but don’t let your guard down too soon the battle is not won yet!